Personal Letters

FREE Guide to Writing Personal Letters

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• Layout of a personal letter
• Personal letter writing conventions
• Content of a personal letter
• Further considerations for very personal letters

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Layout of a Personal Letter

The example personal letter below details the general layout that a personal letter should conform to. Each aspect of the personal letter is detailed more fully below the image.

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Personal Letter Writing Conventions

Conventions are not as critical in a personal letter as they are in a formal letter but the following general layout should be adhered to:

Addresses:

1) Your Address
You must always remember to include your own address on the top right-hand side of the page. This will enable the person that you are writing to, to reply to your letter.

2) The Address of the person you are writing to
This address should be displayed beneath your address on the left-hand side of your letter, remember to include the name of the person that you are writing to.

Date:

This should be displayed on the right-hand side of the page on the line beneath your address and should be written in full format:

e.g. 1st January 2001

Salutation & Greeting:

Dear Mr Jones,
The above shows the format of the greeting line. The salutation formats are shown below:

Mr - for a male
Mrs - for a married female
Miss - for an unmarried female
Ms - for a female whose status is unknown or would prefer to remain anonymous
Dr - for a person with the status of a doctor

The salutation should be followed by the surname only (not the first name).

If you are familiar with the person that you are writing to then it may be more appropriate to include their first name rather than using their title. This is a decision that you will need to make based on your relationship with the person in question.

Concluding a Letter:

1) Yours sincerely,
The letter should be concluded with the words: "Yours sincerely,".

Followed by:

2) Your signature
Sign your name, then print it underneath the signature.

For personal letters you may wish to conclude the letter with something more friendly e.g. "All the best", "Best regards," etc.

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Content of a Personal Letter

Consider your relationship and familiarity with the person or organisation with whom you are writing to and adjust the level of formality accordingly.

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Further Considerations for very Personal Letters

Expressing Yourself - A hand written personal letter; your penmanship is a piece of you and by hand writing your letters and notes, it gives the recipient something completely unique and special.

Mementoes - Enclose a photo; in some circumstances your recipient might have forgotten about or never have seen you. Alternatively enclose a memento of a shared experience (these can be photocopied, rather than sending the original).

From the Heart - Remind your recipient of your shared experiences; or share one thing about that person that you admire, compliments can go a long way to building on relationships.

Avoid Email - Email has made it easy to jot down a few words, spell check and hit send. When handwriting a personal letter use conventional snail mail, obviously checking for spelling and grammar. Know what you are going to say and how you’d like to write it before you start, there is no delete button in real life.